It’s true… ladies we need to be straight forward and to the point with our partners if we want them to give us what we want. NO subtle hints. It will never work. Just say what you want, because your hints will never take a very looooooong time to piece together. Take my situation as a case study:
One thing I learned is that my meatball HAS actually been paying attention to what I say! He really delivered for my birthday and continued my birthday celebration this past weekend with a marathon date in the city.
Marathon date – a date that lasted many hours and includes many different activities!
The sweet thing about this day was each activity was something I really enjoy or have great interest in!
1) I love brunch! I tell my meatball about brunch with friends and also suggest that we should go sometime. He took note, and naturally this was our first stop! Our date started at the Stallmästaregården Hotel & Restaurang
Girls just wanna have brunch!
Love it here!
Then we were in walking distance to our next destination – someone is good with logistics!
2) I had previously asked about the butterfly garden in the city (Fjärilshuset Haga Trädgård), and someone’s swede smarts remembered, making it our next stop! 
Trying going on a weekday if possible as the weekend draws family and the parking lot gets full 
3) Dinner at a cozy Italian resto called Linguini! Tasty food, comforting wine and a great date in candlelight.
4) When I had first researched things to do in the city, one of the places I absolutely wanted to experience was the Absolut Ice Bar located in the city center. I had brought up the bar again, suggesting we should go sometime and SURPRISE! he already arranged our reservation!
Watch your back and don’t get stuck on the ice wall!
I actually learned about this bar from the Amazing Race… good job marketing!
5) We were feeling lucky so our last stop was the Cosmopol casino nearby the bar – again impressive planning! There’s no better way to end the night out than tripling your money! Funny thing is that there’s a 30 kr cover charge for the casinos here… could be a karma thing?
Hopefully this will help your dating plans in Stockholm or just some general things to do! I love this city!
Jocie with a side of Swede 